{"id":463,"date":"2011-12-05T18:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-12-05T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/2011\/12\/05\/25-days-of-gratitude-posts-day-three\/"},"modified":"2011-12-05T18:00:00","modified_gmt":"2011-12-05T18:00:00","slug":"25-days-of-gratitude-posts-day-three","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/?p=463","title":{"rendered":">25 Days of Gratitude Posts; Day Three"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>>(Trying to play catch up here! Bear with me please)<\/p>\n<p>Since she&#8217;s the next one in line, this post is gonna be about Ruthie.<\/p>\n<p>We were a tad nervous about trying for another baby after having Zoe. We were concerned that my Endometriosis would cause problems; enough where I mentioned them to my doctor who said he&#8217;d put me on Clomid if we ended up not being able to conceive after 6 months. Thankfully -and yes, shockingly- It was just one try; I got pregnant right away.<\/p>\n<p>So, what can I say about Ruthie? Her <a href=\"http:\/\/the5hayfords.blogspot.com\/2011\/02\/ruthies-birth-story.html\" target=\"_blank\">birth<\/a> was quite a bit easier than Zoe&#8217;s, mostly due to the great staff that I had supporting me when she was born.<\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/i265.photobucket.com\/albums\/ii204\/wamber_site\/ruthie010.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" border=\"0\" height=\"240\" src=\"http:\/\/i265.photobucket.com\/albums\/ii204\/wamber_site\/ruthie010.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Hi Ruthie! She was .3 oz heavier than Zoe.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>The funny thing is, she still makes the <i><b>exact same face<\/b><\/i> when she cries, even now. Ruthie was actually named after Jeff&#8217;s Grandma Ruth; we decided to add the &#8220;ie&#8221; to make it.. well less old lady. Of course, she&#8217;ll be an old lady someday and then it&#8217;ll fit but I think it just makes the name sound sweeter.<\/p>\n<p>Ruthie&#8217;s not quite the complete opposite of Zoe. They are sisters after all, but while Zoe&#8217;s more intellect and logic, Ruthie&#8217;s more emotional and more aware of her emotions. They both still have their moments and can be equally stubborn, but it&#8217;s easy to tell that they love each other very much.<\/p>\n<p>Ruthie also has a touch of absentmindedness that Zoe doesn&#8217;t have; bless her. She was easier to potty train; mostly because she fell for whatever excuse that we fed her; so as a result she was potty trained at 2 years and 4 months. Insert funny video taken while we were potty training her:<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><object width=\"320\" height=\"266\" class=\"BLOGGER-youtube-video\" classid=\"clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\" data-thumbnail-src=\"http:\/\/2.gvt0.com\/vi\/3hfyUxZNeb4\/0.jpg\"><param name=\"movie\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/3hfyUxZNeb4&#038;fs=1&#038;source=uds\" \/><param name=\"bgcolor\" value=\"#FFFFFF\" \/><embed width=\"320\" height=\"266\"  src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/3hfyUxZNeb4&#038;fs=1&#038;source=uds\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\"><\/embed><\/object><\/div>\n<p>Ruthie&#8217;s best trait in my opinion though is her sense of humor, even when she&#8217;s not trying to be funny.<\/p>\n<p>Example:<\/p>\n<p><i>[We&#8217;re on our way home from dinner at Jeff&#8217;s parents&#8217;; Ruthie&#8217;s been talking up a storm the whole ride home.]<\/i><br \/>Me <i>[annoyed at the fact she hasn&#8217;t stopped talking for 15 minutes]<\/i>: Ruthie, can you please be quiet?<br \/>Ruthie <i>[sincerely]<\/i>: How do I do that?<\/p>\n<p>Or more recently:<br \/><i>[We&#8217;re pulling into the carport after running errands]<\/i><br \/>Ruthie <i>[very alarmed]<\/i>: Oh no! Our Mazda is gone!<br \/>Jeff <i>[in a fit of laughter]<\/i>: We&#8217;re in the Mazda Ruthie.<br \/>Ruthie: Oh.<\/p>\n<p>My favorite though is from when my dad was here:<br \/>My dad: Ruthie, did you know you&#8217;re pretty?<br \/>Ruthie <i>[very matter-of-factly and self assured]<\/i>: Yes I am!<\/p>\n<p>She also has a fun imagination. She enjoys dressing up in their old halloween costumes, and will act like whatever she&#8217;s in. The other weekend, she was in a kitty costume, and wanted me -I was in my room getting dressed- and she was on the other side alternating between meowing and saying &#8220;Mommy!&#8221;<br \/>&nbsp;Zoe <i>[slightly annoyed and impatient]<\/i>: Ruthie why don&#8217;t you just knock?<br \/>Ruthie: Because kitties don&#8217;t knock on doors!<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;s also very sweet. I don&#8217;t know what happened from when I was a kid, to now, but when Ruthie&#8217;s getting picked on by Zoe, she&#8217;ll run and tell us what Zoe&#8217;s doing. Of course we&#8217;ll reply with &#8220;Do you want us to put her in time out?&#8221; or something similar and she&#8217;ll start howling &#8220;No, don&#8217;t do that to my sister!&#8221;. Back in my day when you tattled on your sibling, you did it because you want them to get in trouble and punished. Nope, not Ruthie.<\/p>\n<p>And of course, like me she&#8217;s difficult to wake up.<\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-XgNE07DMui4\/Tt0cJrMPCnI\/AAAAAAAAA5M\/S4UX1TXhPZ4\/s1600\/ruthiesleeping.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" border=\"0\" height=\"240\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-XgNE07DMui4\/Tt0cJrMPCnI\/AAAAAAAAA5M\/S4UX1TXhPZ4\/s320\/ruthiesleeping.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Zzzz.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>But then again, who would want to wake up this sleeping little cutie? Ruthie&#8217;s the perfect middle child, she really is; although she&#8217;s prone to acting like a diva at times.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>>(Trying to play catch up here! Bear with me please) Since she&#8217;s the next one in line, this post is gonna be about Ruthie. We were a tad nervous about trying for another baby after having Zoe. We were concerned that my Endometriosis would cause problems; enough where I mentioned them to my doctor who [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/463"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=463"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/463\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=463"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=463"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/wamber.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=463"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}